AWARD: Cramm

Many thanks to FitnessGrad for nominating me for the Cramm Award. She and I connected about a month ago and have exchanged some fun banter on our sites. You need to stop by to visit her blog, as it is all about her sanctuary for the body and mind. Cool stuff!


The Cramm Award was created by Liv, the owner of theCramm, an awesome blog, visit it here to see the rest for yourself, you’ll not regret it as I’ve been told. I am checking it out myself this week. It’s got quite a unique approach to the news from my initial quick gander!!!


  1. Include a little bit about who created this award (with a link) and mention the person the who nominated you.
  2. Share 3 things that motivate you to blog and share 3 people that motivate you to blog as well
  3. Share one thing you hope to do that will improve the world.
  4. Answer your challenge question
  5. Nominate your choice of bloggers and give them a challenge question.


My Blogging Motivators

  • Things:
    • (1) The 365 Daily challenge motivates me to push myself every day. Instead of just posting randomly or when I think of an idea, it’s a little pressure to keep my writing abilities on their toes, to ensure I communicate with fellow readers and writers each day, and to challenge my intellect to come up with unique and interesting content.
    • (2) Reading is important to me. I want everyone to know that. And I am consistent and whole in everything I do. Creating a book review for everything I’ve ever read is another challenge to push my limits. Sometimes my memory is strong, but at others it isn’t. And when it isn’t, I find ways to make the review interesting. I’ll hit my total of 500 pre-read books this month. I know I forgot some, but I’ll address those as I remember them.
    • (3) The Future. Doing this is helping me figure out what I want to do with my life besides “work” and “play.” Seeing my strengths and weaknesses. Figuring out my voice and perspective. Am I funny? Am I serious? Do I use proper formatting and grammar? Do I have a style? Helps figure out my writing identity and possibly people who might be interested in reading my current book or future books.

  • People:
    • (1) All my online followers friends. Interacting with everyone means people enjoy what I have to say, so why would I stop? It may mean less some days and more other days, but as long as I have positive and collaborative communication with each of you, I’ll blog. When I get bored, boring or redundant, it’ll slow down. Thank you for being such a great community.
    • (2) My significant other has been very supportive of my decision to take this year off and focus on my creative outlets, rather than work full-time in a corporate position. I may go back to work this summer, but the blogging won’t stop. He’s been helpful, reads some and responds, and stays out of it too. It’s a fair balance and I’m grateful to have such a connection.
    • (3) My friend and former co-worker, Lisa. She and I no longer see each other regularly because we live in different states, but each time we talk, she brings up so many of these posts, ideas and comments… makes me realize that I have great friends, too. And she encourages me to keep pushing these limits to see how far I can go with my blogging and writing.


My World Improving Action:

  • If I could change one thing, it would be in how we [the world] communicate with one another. Few are open-minded and listen. People hear what they want to hear and say things without realizing the words they choose and the tone surrounding it. I’m guilty of it from time to time, too. But if we all just took a moment to relax and have an honest and open conversation, recognize there is no need for violence and hatred, we’d be a little bit closer to where we need to be. If I could do anything, I’d want to spread that word from person to person, so we’d all try just a little bit harder. It may sound a bit silly or useless, but instead of responding when you are upset with someone, stop and think… why did they do it? why did they say it? Could I look at this differently? And then when you do respond, see if there’s a way to discuss it rather than blast emails or words back and forth until someone feels horrible or does something bad. So… perhaps by helping a few people via my daily posts, something will start a little fire around the world. A guy can hope, right?


Challenging Question

  • If you could join the “TEAM” who’d be changing the world, what role would you play?
  • To be fair, I’ll answer it as well:
    • I’d be the project manager because that’s my greatest strength. I have a great memory for tasks, I’m very strong in communicating, I am quite organized and I change the way I work to suit the person I’m working with… thus ensuring we can collaborate successfully together. Plus, I have high expectations and I tend to hold people accountable to their duties. I don’t accept failure.


My Nominees Are:


About Me

I’m Jay and I live in NYC. By profession, I work in technology. By passion, I work in writing. Once you hit my site “ThisIsMyTruthNow” at, you can join the fun and see my blog and various site content. You’ll find book reviews, published and in-progress fiction, TV/Film reviews, favorite vacation spots and my own version of the “365 Daily Challenge.” Since March 13, 2017, I’ve posted a characteristic either I currently embody or one I’d like to embody in the future. 365 days of reflection to discover who I am and what I want out of life… see how you compare! Each month, I will post a summary of a trip I’ve taken somewhere in the world. I’ll cover the transportation, hotel, restaurants, activities, who, what, when, where and why… and let you decide for yourself if it’s a trip worth taking.

Feel free to like, rate, comment or take the poll for each post. Tell me what you think.


  1. Thank you for the nomination, Jay! I don’t do awards anymore because I honestly devote all my free time to writing books and spending quality time with my beloved, MR N. 🙂

    As for the team thing, I’d be the encourager. I’d take all ideas/plans and encourage team members to implement them to make the world a better place. 🙂 MRS N

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  2. Congratulations Jay and thank you for the nomination! I’m honoured 🙂 I’m heading to bed now, I will do this hopefully tomorrow if not the next day. I haven’t had a chance read over your answers yet, either!

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  3. Awh this was so awesome! so happy you decided to do this award! woot!
    I love that your significant other plays a huge support system, as does mine and even though mine is a recent relationship, they have been more than a support but a motivation to keep doing better as well.

    Also, I love your world changing idea, that is something that does need changed. I would totally agree with you and totally respect your explanation and open mindedness, that paragraph was beautiful written and I could tell came from the heart! so awesome! so very awesome! so happy I connect with you!


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  4. What an awesome award and a great post! Congratulations on the award!

    I love that your significant other is supportive in you taking the year off in order to focus on your creative outlets. It’s super sweet and kind. 🙂

    Thank you for the insightful post! I look forward to reading more!

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