Book Review: What If It’s Us by Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera

What If It's UsWhat If It’s Us by Becky Albertalli

My rating: 4.5 of 5 stars

With all the hype in the last few years about these authors, I knew I needed to read one of each of their books. I requested a few from the library and got placed in the queue to wait my turn. This was the first novel that showed up, so I get to sample them both at the same time. It was a fantastic read, and I ended up just shy of 4.5 stars hence rounding down to 4 on the ratings charts. Let’s dive into my thoughts…

While the first few chapters drew me in on many levels, I squirmed a lot over the dialog and viability of the scenarios. I live in New York City. I’ve been to this post office many times. I couldn’t visualize it based on how things were laid out. It definitely could happen; however, between the dialog of the characters and this meet-cute scenario, I thought they were mid-20s at first. On the flip side, I’m not in my 20s now, so it’s possible I’m a tad removed from how things currently work in the dating world! What this book ultimately made me do / think after finishing 90% of it was… how in the world do people date in today’s times? These two guys are ~17 in NYC riding subways on their own and going all over the place. In my day (wow, that makes me sound way older than I am) I was a scared little boy who wouldn’t have (a) been allowed to nor (b) felt comfortable doing it. Perhaps that’s more of a comment on me and not the book, but I couldn’t imagine having a conversation with my parents about ‘dick-picks’ from people online. However, in 2018, it’s probably warranted with so much technology and social media in our hands.

My only other concern with the book was the ending. If you prefer not to know, skip this paragraph. If you are okay with small spoilers, keep reading. So… I’m reading along wondering if the book will be a happily-ever-after story or a heart-crushing painful one. I’m definitely more like Arthur minus the Jewish background and desire to attend Yale. I have a free spirit like Ben but I would never show up late nor be friends with an ex the way he was. At 95% in, the book ends with Arthur going back to Georgia for his senior year (was in NYC with parents just for a summer). We don’t know how it ends… but in the epilogue, we do. They go off to college / career separately and have different lives that still intersect. I don’t want to give it all away, but it made me stop and think… isn’t letting go of love hard? I’ve had two prior long-term relationships (5+ years each) end before I met my current partner. Going thru that at 17 (a precocious 17) must be worse.

Yikes, this is a review about a book. Why am I being so personal? I suppose it means the writing, characters, and story were that strong… I connected on many levels. To see how two young guys in high school learn how to date, how not to get mauled on a subway by a bigot, to deal with parents meeting one another, to be out at such a young age… it’s all a challenging and eye-opening experience. I see it with younger friends and family, but to read about it with two kids you just want to hug is a different sort of emotional heart-string tug. I admit I teared up in the end, and Ben’s grand gesture was adorable.

So… I’ll definitely read more from both authors. I recommend this book. Some will find it trite / overdone / simple… but honestly, they just like to complain and have no heart (no offense intended, I respect our differences)… I always look for the wonderful sentiments in a book and enjoy when my boundaries are pushed to think about things differently. Kudos for making it happen here.

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  1. Hey, I liked you getting personal in the review. Pure reviews (impersonal, objective) are great; personal elements in reviews are sometimes illuminating (as here) and sometimes gratuitous (as in the lengthy diatribes we get in some reviews nowadays about how we should like or hate the book based on the author’s demographic identity).

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  2. For what it’s worth, I was definitely not this independent when I was 17 either. But I had friends who were. I guess we all navigate our way through losing our innocence at different speeds. 🙂 This book has been on my radar for a while. I might finally have to pick it up. Thanks for the review. 🙂

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  3. I don’t spend a lot of time focusing on my age which is “retired-ish,” but your “a tad removed” comment made me laugh—at myself! I am so far removed from this scenario that I am off the continuum! I think you are right that it is a tribute to the authors that your review ended up being very personal.

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  4. I connected with Ben in many levels. I loved the part about racial diversity and education. Arthur annoyed me and I found little merit in his story. As for independence, I was allowed to visit and explore nYC many times on my own. I’m from Florida and visited frequently for family and college. Thank you for sharing your insight! I’ll have to check out your other writings. All the best, Benjamin Gallagher

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    • Hey, Ben! Thanks for reading my review and sharing on the post. I just followed your blog. I’m glad to know other thoughts on the whole NYC thing. The Arthur plot was hit/miss on a few levels, I agree… I liked seeing the different approaches. Have a great weekend.

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